“Get an ugly girl to marry you”
You cannot pick a husband to have kids with until you know if you want to work full-time while you are raising them. Some women will say they know for sure that they do want to work full-time. Most women will say that they don’t know for sure. But there are actually only two choices: be a breadwinner or marry a breadwinner. Then, within those two choices, there are a few strategies you could use.
Scenario 1: Be a Breadwinner
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Scenario 2: Be Home with Your Kids
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Scenario 3: Denial. Don’t do this.
Hypergamy. Reality. Deal.
Having children is nothing like having a dog or cat. A child is not an accessory.
“Look before you leap.”
“Get yourself on the right track.”
“Finding a good man is like finding a needle in a haystack.”
“We’re looking for you, gonna find you”